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First aid kits are an item that we never think about owning, even though we pass them all the time in the store. When you get cut or hurt in another manner, you always go to your medicine cabinet in the belief that you have a first aid kit, often to be disappointed. Here are two good reasons for feeling it is essential to have a first aid kit on hand at home.
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This approach tries to combine the best of both worlds. It recognizes that a full-time job is not the most important thing in the world, but moms are also interested in things outside the home. So instead, you can combine various parts of a fulfilling life by having your children and spending time with them while you (and they) are young, then bringing them along during your ride through the career world.

Will everything go perfectly? Probably not. If motherhood means anything, it’s accepting a certain messiness. This philosophy also relies on enlightened men who want their wives to have it all too, and who are willing to indulge less in the cult of the career themselves to make that happen. Fortunately, the culture seems to be moving that way. One of my favorite Baby Blues cartoons shows husband Darryl MacPherson watching a 1950’s TV sitcom, wondering why it’s inherently funny that the father has to take care of the kids for a weekend while mom is out of town. What is he, incompetent?—MacPherson asks. I once interviewed a molecular biology student on a biotech research track who informed me she planned to have a fight with her husband over what they both saw as a privilege—“which one of us gets to stay home with the kids.”

HP’s research raised a million other questions—such as what companies can do to help valuable employees who happen to be moms. Probably a lot. It’s always amazed me how few corporations offer emergency day care for parents when something goes awry, even though the current solution—parents taking “sick days”—probably costs the company more.

But the most important idea to take away from HP’s book is that if you want both kids and a career, you can make it happen, as long as you don’t buy completely into either cult mentality. You may have to make adjustments on both fronts. One profile of Mark-Jusbasche, for instance, noted that she felt bad about missing some aspects of her boys’ growing up, and ultimately she scaled back her career to spend more time with them (just in time, it turned out, to miss the worst of the Enron mess).

But you can do both if you define your priorities, and find a way to make it happen. Said Hewlett herself on the Today show, “In the end, it’s in the hands, I think, of the individual woman.” And no individual woman’s life needs to be all one way or the other.

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A Tale of Two Cults

The problem is that the mommy wars portray women’s life choices as conforming to one of two mutually exclusive, weighty ideas: the cult of the career and cult of domesticity. Combative rhetoric propagates the idea that once you’ve chosen the latter you are forever bound to it, and if you’ve chosen the former, you’re obligated to devote yourself slavishly to that cult through your younger years until you are completely established.

The career cult mentality leads to some odd prioritizing. Reading through the profiles of childless women in articles about Hewlett’s research, I was struck by the choices some women had made after being sucked in by the cult of the career. For instance, one woman billed herself as “director of marketing at a luxury hotel.” She could have had children in her thirties, but instead of making that happen, she devoted herself primarily to work, and once she reached her forties, realized having children might no longer be possible. The cult of the career misses a fundamental point: Work exists to pay the bills. It can also be challenging and interesting, but everyone’s primary goal should be a fulfilling life—not climbing the corporate hierarchy just because it’s there.

But we also make a mistake in billing domesticity as a cult you can never leave. Out of financial necessity, working class women have always found ways to combine the care of small children and work outside the home. So high-achieving, wealthier women can do the same—through freelancing, telecommuting, part-time work, and husbands who share equal childcare responsibilities. The cult of domesticity implies that once women have children, they lose all interests outside the home, except for cute ones like charity boards and bridge clubs. This is a demeaning picture that’s never been true.

Sequencing to a Complete Life

So how about the more modern notion of “sequencing”—women shifting back and forth between different stages of their lives? One sequencing support group, “Mothers & More” (which my sister- in-law participates in) defines this as moving in and out of paid employment and opting for a variety of flexible work arrangements in order to balance work and family. It could work like this: Go to school or work for a while (my sister-in-law has a Ph.D. in chemistry); raise kids for a while, perhaps while freelancing or consulting part-time to maintain outside interests; then incorporate work back into your life in a way that meets your own and your family’s needs.

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Rebecca Mark-Jusbasche is superwoman. A multimillionaire former executive, she was named one of Fortune magazine’s 50 Most Powerful Women in Business. She also raised twin boys while building her career, taking them as toddlers to Harvard Business School with her, then bringing them along on the corporate jet when she could. Granted, not everything went perfectly. She didn’t make every swim meet, and her career, as a wheeler-dealer at the now-bankrupt Enron, is probably over.

But I had this woman’s story in mind as I read about the furor caused by the newest book from Sylvia Ann Hewlett, Creating a Life: Professional Women and the Quest for Children. Hewlett interviewed dozens of highly successful women of the post-feminist revolution “breakthrough generation.” She studied a thousand more who spent their twenties and thirties nurturing high-wattage careers. But then, she noted, these women faced a cruel reality: They had achieved everything else, but when they finally decided they were ready to have children, their bodies were no longer capable.

Predictably the controversy, like so much of the ongoing Mommy wars, split along ideological lines. The Right mustered a certain “I told you so,” attitude and called for a return to the traditional family—dads who work and moms who don’t. Richard Lowry of National Review, for instance, has been on a crusade in recent years, writing, “Working moms are at the very center of a variety of cultural ills. Maybe a little stigma is what they deserve.” Those on the Left have been equally apoplectic. “There is an antifeminist agenda that says we should go back to the 1950’s,” Caryl Rivers, a professor at Boston University, told Time magazine. “The subliminal message is ‘Don’t get too educated; don’t get too successful or too ambitious.’”

The numbers are depressing. According to Hewlett’s research, 49% of women earning over $100,000 a year are childless at age 40, meaning they will probably never have children. Any society where that high a percentage of the most intelligent, ambitious women don’t reproduce faces a troubled future.

But missing in all the hubbub are the tales of women such as Mark-Jusbasche. Over half of the high-achieving women Hewlett studied did indeed have it all—kids and a successful career. So despite dire warnings (including a headline in USA Today intoning: “Young women must choose”), the mommy-track and career-track don’t have to be at odds. The 51% of these $100,000 women who also have kids can serve as an inspiration for younger women who want to travel both roads.

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In Howdentown as I have heard ‘em tell
Once there was a white hare, she used to there to dwell
She’s been hunted by the greyhounds and the beagle-dogs did fare
And there’s not a one amongst’em could keep up with that white hare
She’s faster than the black, and she’s bonnier than the brown
And there’s not a dog in England as’ll ever bring her down
So says Jimmy The Bold Huntsman to Tom The Whipper-In
‘Go look in yonder fernside and see if she lies in’
And with that she gave a jump, boys, as fast away she ran
And its yonder that she’s going as fast as ere she can
When they came unto the place where this white hare did lie
The beagles they uncoupled, they began to try
Then the crafty greyhounds did beat the bush around around
And there never was a white hare in that field to be found
By horse and foot they did then unto this place draw neigh
All thinking that the white hare was going for to die
But she slipped out of the bush, boys, and over Howden Hill
And the beagles and the greyhounds there was one shot in the kill.

As a person gets older, having to put up with arthritis pain is one of the worst things to deal with. The elderly are not the only ones affected by arthritis pain; younger people can suffer from it as well. In this case a person would spend most of their life experiencing the pain of arthritis and trying to locate some form of pain relief.

Begin by using a natural approach to treating arthritis pain. Specialized massage treatment for arthritis may reduce the pain a great deal. Having to go through several sessions before desired results are achieved is the drawback to this method.

Acupuncture is an additional natural treatment for arthritis pain. This form of therapy helps relieve pain by stimulating the nerve centers in your body. Many individuals experience relief from the use of acupressure which is like acupuncture except this method puts pressure on the joints as opposed to using needles.

The first priority in coping with the pain is to reduce the swelling of the joints. You can buy hot and cold packs from your local drugstore or department store. You can experience some pain relief by applying these packs right on your swollen joints. Some quick pain relief can be accomplished by using ice packs on the arthritis related swelling.
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If your doctor has prescribed the muscle relaxant Zanaflex (Tizanidine Hydrochloride) for you, and you are uncertain about what it is exactly or how you should take it, or if you merely wish to learn something about Zanaflex medication, this information may be helpful for you.

You can purchase Zanaflex (Tizanidine Hydrochloride) in either tablet or capsule form. The tablet form of this drug comes in 2 and 4 milligram strengths. The tablet form of Zanaflex comes in two varieties: a 2mg blue tablet and a 4mg white tablet. Zanaflex (Tizanidine Hydrochloride) also comes in capsules. The 2 milligram capsules are blue in color, while the 4 milligram capsules are white and blue. Zanaflex (Tizanidine Hydrochloride) can also be found in a 6mg dose of light blue capsules. Zanaflex (Tizanidine Hydrochloride) treats spasticity in the short term. Spasticity is triggered by stiffness and rigidity in body muscles, and results in increasingly laborious effort in the daily movements. These prescription drugs work in the body by ensuring that unnecessary firing of nerve cells which command muscle movement are blocked.

The best way to take Zanaflex (Tizanidine Hydrochloride) is to take 4mg every six to eight hours, but don’t take more than three doses in any 24-hour period. To receive the best benefits from Zanaflex, slowly raise the dosage of this muscle relaxant in two to four milligram increments over a period of time as instructed by your doctor. 36 milligrams is the maximum daily dose of Zanaflex (Tizanidine Hydrochloride). If you have kidney problems, your doctor will prescribe a lower dose of Zanaflex (Tizanidine Hydrochloride) for you.
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